Yuri Asked: Will she regret leaving me? Will my she ever come back to me? I love her.?
Me (25) and my girlfriend (22) have been together in a committed relationship for 8 or 9 months. The relationship has progressed very rapidly from the very start, and seen its share of ups and downs, but I have been there for her through everything! I treat her like she's everything because she is everything to me. We often talk about starting a family together and having kids early. Upon meeting her parents, I even made it clear that I will one day marry their daughter.
I make more than enough time to spend with her and she knows how much I love her. She has often told me in the past that I am "PERFECT," that no one has ever treated her this good before, and that she would never break up with me. I know the sex between us is AMAZING, and she knows that I am not using her for sex by any means. I am very attractive and promised to give her everything I have in the future. Yet, I don't understand why she would break up with me because she is "starting to love me less." She says its because of my job and the fact that it is low paying.
Our arguments in the past have often ended in tears and revolved around financial issues (ie. From not having a car of my own to issues surround my job (retail), etc). But we have always made it work out and given each other another chance. I don't understand why she would break up with me if she knows I am responsible and more than willing to take care of her and our children if we ever have any.
When I asked her if there is a chance of getting back together, she said "no," but she has also told me after not too long ago that she still loves me. Sometimes, it feels like she is unable to control her emotions and takes everything out on me.
She is just started dating someone and has decided to go "no contact" on me. It has not even been 2 months since the break up. When I ask to see how she's doing and to tell her to be careful, but it feels like she hates me. She has deleted me from MSN but still has me on Facebook. I have done everything to get her back, and I don't want to continue trying because I will push her away. I have given her space and done everything for her.
And another thing, when we broke up, she has even told me she does not see a future between us. I asked her why and she does even know why she feels this way. Is it really because of my job or something deeper?!? I realize that after August, our relationship started going downhill and she decided to break up shortly after.
I really want her back and to start a brand new relationship with her. I know that no one will ever treat her as good as the way I did and she knows it too. I am not dating anyone even though I have a lot of chances to do so and find someone better. I am suffering from insomnia (loss of sleep), contemplated suicide, and cried many many times just thinking about her.
What should I do and what did I do wrong? Why does she hate me so much at the moment? Does she still love me? Will she ever regret leaving me? And is she in a rebound relationship right now?
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Comments and suggestions are greatly appreciated !!!
To add to this, I am taking the time to improve myself in everything! In terms of my job, I have even left it to pursue better opportunities, even if I am just applying for jobs right now.
I know that this guy she is seeing IS NOT the reason why we broke up and I know that he is from a dating site. So I am 100% that she did not cheat on me. I feel like if she decides to be serious with this guy, it will end very soon, and that the relationship will be a rebound relationship. I'm not so worried about the guy or guys she is seeing right now. The only thing I worry about more than anything is that she will get hurt if she commits too deeply into this guy, and if she will come back to me. I know she still loves me despite every hurtful thing she has said to me.
I find myself crying practically every day… sometimes it becomes so unbearable that I feel like killing myself. I hate myself for losing her, but I love her intensely!
When will she come back to me? and how long do I have to wait?
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