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I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

Asked: I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

I know this looks a bit long, but I really would like advice right now, my mind is in hell. If you think it's too long, just skip it : ). I met this girl on a dating site , an instant messaging one where you type like on MSN, and after a week of typing to each other online she wanted to hear what I sounded like on the phone. We spoke on the phone nearly every night for 2 weeks, always talking for around 6 to 8 hours… from around 11 or 12 at night right through to around 6 in the morning. She works for the police, so does shift work which enables her to do this. We spoke about loads of things, most of the time while I was laying in my bed, and her in her bed. She told me that I am brilliant and a gentleman and that she likes me very much. I wasn't sleazy as well. We liked each others pictures. She knew that I was a bit shy, and I told her that I am not good at approaching girls in bars, etc, but she said she didn't mind this, and she did stay on the phone to me for 2 weeks and was even talking about meeting up.

She had just 5 months before, been SEVERELY heartbroken by her previous ex, because her ex was continually stealing money via her credit card, and at the same time was cheating on her with his ex girlfriend behind her back. She said this left her feeling so heartbroken, that it took her a while to get over it, She said to me that she wasn't sure of this dating site thing, but thought I was superb and towards the end of those two weeks she was eager to meet me. I told her I wanted to wait for about a month so we could warm up to each other, as I didn't to mess things up. She went quiet and said I was starting to freak her out, because she thought I had an issue with her and that she has always felt that she needed to prove herself in previous guys.

We went to sleep, and the next day she texted me asking how I was, what I was doing ,etc, like she usually did, I replied but got no reply back. I didn't contact her for 3 days, worried I had upset her, and on the Sunday morning she sent me a message to my phone via text, saying, "sooo….what have I done wrong?" I explained by text, then deleted my dating site account. then asked her to phone me, we had a little chat about it and she said I confused her by deleting my account. We said night on a good note, then she texted me, asking how I was the next day. We texted a bit, then she went a whole day with out replying to me, so I texted her asking what was wrong

She called me yesterday evening, and she explained that sorry that she didn't reply straight away, but she had been unwell and she had been in hospital because of a blood disorder that runs in her family. She said she had been shaking and stuff, and had to go in. She then said to me she don't think she is ready for a relationship, that she had a think while in hospital and realised she wanted to sort herself out. She also said her sister advised her to concentrate on herself, and also mentioned something about her dad which I can't quite remember what it was. I asked her if she wasn't just saying this, and she said to me "Michael I wouldn't lie to you hun"

I tried to reassure her how much I like her, and she says she knows,, but those what happened between us with the 3 days thing, etc, brought her back some bad memories , and that she felt a little freaked out. She also said something about telling all me this because she didn't want me to feel that she was stringing me along, etc. I told her that I only deleted my account because I thought she was going to delete me, and she said to me "So you didn't know me as well as I thought you knew me then" in a disappointed and matter of factly tone. She also told me to get out and look for a girl, because girls would like me, which I hated. She did ask me "What DO you want" regarding relationship, and I told her the same thing I told her during those two weeks.

The thing is, she did sound very genuine when she was telling me all this, as though she was telling the truth, I noticed this at the time. I asked her what she thought of me during those two weeks and she told me, in her words, I am brilliant, a gentleman, a sweetheart, etc. I asked her if we could stay in contact, but she said there was no point and that I would want to find or talk to other girls and that it wouldn't be fair. This has had a huge knock on my confidence, as why would she suddenly hate me? She said more than once in yesterdays chat "Michael, please don't hate me for this, please don't think I'm a b****th" << Why would she say that? Does she even care if I hate her or not, seeing as she hates me now?

Please opinions would be great. I am truly heartbroken, and slaughtered as I know this would have turned into something beautiful, if it was not for my stupidity.
Thanks

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - March 20, 2013 at 9:01 am

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I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

Asked: I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

I know this looks a bit long, but I really would like advice right now, my mind is in hell. If you think it's too long, just skip it : ). I met this girl on a dating site , an instant messaging one where you type like on MSN, and after a week of typing to each other online she wanted to hear what I sounded like on the phone. We spoke on the phone nearly every night for 2 weeks, always talking for around 6 to 8 hours… from around 11 or 12 at night right through to around 6 in the morning. She works for the police, so does shift work which enables her to do this. We spoke about loads of things, most of the time while I was laying in my bed, and her in her bed. She told me that I am brilliant and a gentleman and that she likes me very much. I wasn't sleazy as well. We liked each others pictures. She knew that I was a bit shy, and I told her that I am not good at approaching girls in bars, etc, but she said she didn't mind this, and she did stay on the phone to me for 2 weeks and was even talking about meeting up.

She had just 5 months before, been SEVERELY heartbroken by her previous ex, because her ex was continually stealing money via her credit card, and at the same time was cheating on her with his ex girlfriend behind her back. She said this left her feeling so heartbroken, that it took her a while to get over it, She said to me that she wasn't sure of this dating site thing, but thought I was superb and towards the end of those two weeks she was eager to meet me. I told her I wanted to wait for about a month so we could warm up to each other, as I didn't to mess things up. She went quiet and said I was starting to freak her out, because she thought I had an issue with her and that she has always felt that she needed to prove herself in previous guys.

We went to sleep, and the next day she texted me asking how I was, what I was doing ,etc, like she usually did, I replied but got no reply back. I didn't contact her for 3 days, worried I had upset her, and on the Sunday morning she sent me a message to my phone via text, saying, "sooo….what have I done wrong?" I explained by text, then deleted my dating site account. then asked her to phone me, we had a little chat about it and she said I confused her by deleting my account. We said night on a good note, then she texted me, asking how I was the next day. We texted a bit, then she went a whole day with out replying to me, so I texted her asking what was wrong

She called me yesterday evening, and she explained that sorry that she didn't reply straight away, but she had been unwell and she had been in hospital because of a blood disorder that runs in her family. She said she had been shaking and stuff, and had to go in. She then said to me she don't think she is ready for a relationship, that she had a think while in hospital and realised she wanted to sort herself out. She also said her sister advised her to concentrate on herself, and also mentioned something about her dad which I can't quite remember what it was. I asked her if she wasn't just saying this, and she said to me "Michael I wouldn't lie to you hun"

I tried to reassure her how much I like her, and she says she knows,, but those what happened between us with the 3 days thing, etc, brought her back some bad memories , and that she felt a little freaked out. She also said something about telling all me this because she didn't want me to feel that she was stringing me along, etc. I told her that I only deleted my account because I thought she was going to delete me, and she said to me "So you didn't know me as well as I thought you knew me then" in a disappointed and matter of factly tone. She also told me to get out and look for a girl, because girls would like me, which I hated. She did ask me "What DO you want" regarding relationship, and I told her the same thing I told her during those two weeks.

The thing is, she did sound very genuine when she was telling me all this, as though she was telling the truth, I noticed this at the time. I asked her what she thought of me during those two weeks and she told me, in her words, I am brilliant, a gentleman, a sweetheart, etc. I asked her if we could stay in contact, but she said there was no point and that I would want to find or talk to other girls and that it wouldn't be fair. This has had a huge knock on my confidence, as why would she suddenly hate me? She said more than once in yesterdays chat "Michael, please don't hate me for this, please don't think I'm a b****th" << Why would she say that? Does she even care if I hate her or not, seeing as she hates me now?

Please opinions would be great. I am truly heartbroken, and slaughtered as I know this would have turned into something beautiful, if it was not for my stupidity.
Thanks

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - March 19, 2013 at 3:41 am

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I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

Asked: I really hope this girl told me the truth when parting with me. I am so sad. 10 points?

I know this looks a bit long, but I really would like advice right now, my mind is in hell. If you think it's too long, just skip it : ). I met this girl on a dating site , an instant messaging one where you type like on MSN, and after a week of typing to each other online she wanted to hear what I sounded like on the phone. We spoke on the phone nearly every night for 2 weeks, always talking for around 6 to 8 hours… from around 11 or 12 at night right through to around 6 in the morning. She works for the police, so does shift work which enables her to do this. We spoke about loads of things, most of the time while I was laying in my bed, and her in her bed. She told me that I am brilliant and a gentleman and that she likes me very much. I wasn't sleazy as well. We liked each others pictures. She knew that I was a bit shy, and I told her that I am not good at approaching girls in bars, etc, but she said she didn't mind this, and she did stay on the phone to me for 2 weeks and was even talking about meeting up.

She had just 5 months before, been SEVERELY heartbroken by her previous ex, because her ex was continually stealing money via her credit card, and at the same time was cheating on her with his ex girlfriend behind her back. She said this left her feeling so heartbroken, that it took her a while to get over it, She said to me that she wasn't sure of this dating site thing, but thought I was superb and towards the end of those two weeks she was eager to meet me. I told her I wanted to wait for about a month so we could warm up to each other, as I didn't to mess things up. She went quiet and said I was starting to freak her out, because she thought I had an issue with her and that she has always felt that she needed to prove herself in previous guys.

We went to sleep, and the next day she texted me asking how I was, what I was doing ,etc, like she usually did, I replied but got no reply back. I didn't contact her for 3 days, worried I had upset her, and on the Sunday morning she sent me a message to my phone via text, saying, "sooo….what have I done wrong?" I explained by text, then deleted my dating site account. then asked her to phone me, we had a little chat about it and she said I confused her by deleting my account. We said night on a good note, then she texted me, asking how I was the next day. We texted a bit, then she went a whole day with out replying to me, so I texted her asking what was wrong

She called me yesterday evening, and she explained that sorry that she didn't reply straight away, but she had been unwell and she had been in hospital because of a blood disorder that runs in her family. She said she had been shaking and stuff, and had to go in. She then said to me she don't think she is ready for a relationship, that she had a think while in hospital and realised she wanted to sort herself out. She also said her sister advised her to concentrate on herself, and also mentioned something about her dad which I can't quite remember what it was. I asked her if she wasn't just saying this, and she said to me "Michael I wouldn't lie to you hun"

I tried to reassure her how much I like her, and she says she knows,, but those what happened between us with the 3 days thing, etc, brought her back some bad memories , and that she felt a little freaked out. She also said something about telling all me this because she didn't want me to feel that she was stringing me along, etc. I told her that I only deleted my account because I thought she was going to delete me, and she said to me "So you didn't know me as well as I thought you knew me then" in a disappointed and matter of factly tone. She also told me to get out and look for a girl, because girls would like me, which I hated. She did ask me "What DO you want" regarding relationship, and I told her the same thing I told her during those two weeks.

The thing is, she did sound very genuine when she was telling me all this, as though she was telling the truth, I noticed this at the time. I asked her what she thought of me during those two weeks and she told me, in her words, I am brilliant, a gentleman, a sweetheart, etc. I asked her if we could stay in contact, but she said there was no point and that I would want to find or talk to other girls and that it wouldn't be fair. This has had a huge knock on my confidence, as why would she suddenly hate me? She said more than once in yesterdays chat "Michael, please don't hate me for this, please don't think I'm a b****th" << Why would she say that? Does she even care if I hate her or not, seeing as she hates me now?

Please opinions would be great. I am truly heartbroken, and slaughtered as I know this would have turned into something beautiful, if it was not for my stupidity.
Thanks

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - March 16, 2013 at 5:01 pm

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I really hope she told me the truth when parting with me. I feel so sad. (10 points)?

Asked: I really hope she told me the truth when parting with me. I feel so sad. (10 points)?

I know this looks a bit long, but I really would like advice right now, my mind is in hell. If you think it's too long, just skip it : ). I met this girl on a dating site , an instant messaging one where you type like on MSN, and after a week of typing to each other online she wanted to hear what I sounded like on the phone. We spoke on the phone nearly every night for 2 weeks, always talking for around 6 to 8 hours… from around 11 or 12 at night right through to around 6 in the morning. She works for the police, so does shift work which enables her to do this. We spoke about loads of things, most of the time while I was laying in my bed, and her in her bed. She told me that I am brilliant and a gentleman and that she likes me very much. I wasn't sleazy as well. We liked each others pictures.

She had just 5 months before, been SEVERELY heartbroken by her previous ex, because her ex was continually stealing money via her credit card, and at the same time was cheating on her with his ex girlfriend behind her back. She said this left her feeling so heartbroken, that it took her a while to get over it, She said to me that she wasn't sure of this dating site thing, but thought I was superb and towards the end of those two weeks she was eager to meet me. I told her I wanted to wait for about a month so we could warm up to each other, as I didn't to mess things up. She went quiet and said I was starting to freak her out, because she thought I had an issue with her and that she has always felt that she needed to prove herself in previous guys.

We went to sleep, and the next day she texted me asking how I was, what I was doing ,etc, like she usually did, I replied but got no reply back. I didn't contact her for 3 days, worried I had upset her, and on the Sunday morning she sent me a message to my phone via text, saying, "sooo….what have I done wrong?" I explained by text, then deleted my dating site account. then asked her to phone me, we had a little chat about it and she said I confused her by deleting my account. We said night on a good note, then she texted me, asking how I was the next day. We texted a bit, then she went a whole day with out replying to me, so I texted her asking what was wrong

She called me yesterday evening, and she explained that sorry that she didn't reply straight away, but she had been unwell and she had been in hospital because of a blood disorder that runs in her family. She said she had been shaking and stuff, and had to go in. She then said to me she don't think she is ready for a relationship, that she had a think while in hospital and realised she wanted to sort herself out. She also said her sister advised her to concentrate on herself, and also mentioned something about her dad which I can't quite remember what it was. I asked her if she wasn't just saying this, and she said to me "Michael I wouldn't lie to you hun"

I tried to reassure her how much I like her, and she says she knows,, but those what happened between us with the 3 days thing, etc, brought her back some bad memories , and that she felt a little freaked out. She also said something about telling all me this because she didn't want me to feel that she was stringing me along, etc. I told her that I only deleted my account because I thought she was going to delete me, and she said to me "So you didn't know me as well as I thought you knew me then" in a disappointed and matter of factly tone. She did ask me "What DO you want" regarding relationship, and I told her the same thing I told her during those two weeks.

The thing is, she did sound very genuine when she was telling me all this, as though she was telling the truth, I noticed this at the time. I asked her what she thought of me during those two weeks and she told me, in her words, I am brilliant, a gentleman, a sweetheart, etc. I asked her if we could stay in contact, but she said there was no point and that I would want to find or talk to other girls and that it wouldn't be fair. This has had a huge knock on my confidence, as why would she suddenly hate me? She said more than once in yesterdays chat "Michael, please don't hate me for this, please don't think I'm a b****th" << Why would she say that? Does she even care if I hate her or not, seeing as she hates me now?

Please opinions would be great. I am truly heartbroken, and slaughtered as I know this would have turned into something beautiful, if it was not for my stupidity.
Thanks

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - March 7, 2013 at 1:01 pm

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I really hope she told me the truth when parting with me. I feel so sad. (10 points)?

Asked: I really hope she told me the truth when parting with me. I feel so sad. (10 points)?

I know this looks a bit long, but I really would like advice right now, my mind is in hell. If you think it's too long, just skip it : ). I met this girl on a dating site , an instant messaging one where you type like on MSN, and after a week she wanted to hear what I sounded like on the phone. We spoke on the phone every night for two weeks, always talking for around 6 to 8 hours… from around 11 or 12 at night right through to around 6 in the morning. She works for the police, so does shift work which enables her to do this. We spoke about loads of things, most of the time while I was laying in my bed, and her in her bed. She told me that I am brilliant and a gentleman and that she likes me very much. I wasn't sleazy as well. We liked each others pictures.

She had just 5 months before, been SEVERELY heartbroken by her previous ex, because her ex was continually stealing money via her credit card, and at the same time was cheating on her with his ex girlfriend behind her back. She said this left her feeling so heartbroken, that it took her a while to get over it, She said to me that she wasn't sure of this dating site thing, but thought I was superb and towards the end of those two weeks she was eager to meet me. I told her I wanted to wait for about a month so we could warm up to each other, as I didn't to mess things up. She went quiet and said I was starting to freak her out, because she thought I had an issue with her and that she has always felt that she needed to prove herself in previous guys.

We went to sleep, and the next day she texted me asking how I was, what I was doing ,etc, like she usually did, I replied but got no reply back. I didn't contact her for 3 days, worried I had upset her, and on the Sunday morning she sent me a message to my phone via text, saying, "sooo….what have I done wrong?" I explained by text, then deleted my dating site account. then asked her to phone me, we had a little chat about it and she said I confused her by deleting my account. We said night on a good note, then she texted me, asking how I was the next day. We texted a bit, then she went a whole day with out replying to me, so I texted her asking what was wrong

She called me yesterday evening, and she explained that sorry that she didn't reply straight away, but she had been unwell and she had been in hospital because of a blood disorder that runs in her family. She said she had been shaking and stuff, and had to go in. She then said to me she don't think she is ready for a relationship, that she had a think while in hospital and realised she wanted to sort herself out. She also said her sister advised her to concentrate on herself, and also mentioned something about her dad which I can't quite remember what it was. I asked her if she wasn't just saying this, and she said to me "Michael I wouldn't lie to you hun"

I tried to reassure her how much I like her, and she says she knows,, but those what happened between us with the 3 days thing, etc, brought her back some bad memories , and that she felt a little freaked out. She also said something about telling all me this because she didn't want me to feel that she was stringing me along, etc. I told her that I only deleted my account because I thought she was going to delete me, and she said to me "So you didn't know me as well as I thought you knew me then" in a disappointed and matter of factly tone. She did ask me "What DO you want" regarding relationship, and I told her the same thing I told her during those two weeks. The thing is, she did sound very genuine when she was telling me all this, as though she was telling the truth, I noticed this at the time. I asked her what she thought of me during those two weeks and she told me, in her words, I am brilliant, a gentleman, a sweetheart, etc. I asked her if we could stay in contact, but she said there was no point and that I would want to find or talk to other girls and that it wouldn't be fair. This has had a huge knock on my confidence, as why would she suddenly hate me? She said more than once in yesterdays chat "Michael, please don't hate me for this, please don't think I'm a b****th" << Why would she say that? Does she even care if I hate her or not, seeing as she hates me now?

Please opinions would be great. I am truly heartbroken, and slaughtered as I know this would have turned into something beautiful, if it was not for my stupidity.
Thanks

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - March 5, 2013 at 5:01 pm

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What mental problem could this girl have (If she has one at all..)?

Asked: What mental problem could this girl have (If she has one at all..)?

She said she had a kid before she moved down and she admitted she hasn't got one.

She said that her dad used to hit her, Her step sister said this is bull.

She said she used to do coke and smack and this is a Lie!

She said a asian man tried to have sex with her (Probably a lie)

She said that I got her pregnant (Yes I made a mistake and slept with her) (She said she had an implant, dont know if its true or not but she did have a bruise where she said she had one) and i found out this is a lie because her friend who she fell out with said its a lie and she had cysts on her Fallopian tube or something.

And now she is pretending to be her boyfriend on her MSN and saying all sort of crap to me!

So I think she is not "All there". Does this sound like a mental disorder or something?

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - June 18, 2012 at 9:41 pm

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Will she regret leaving me? Will my she ever come back to me? I love her.?

Yuri Asked: Will she regret leaving me? Will my she ever come back to me? I love her.?

Me (25) and my girlfriend (22) have been together in a committed relationship for 8 or 9 months. The relationship has progressed very rapidly from the very start, and seen its share of ups and downs, but I have been there for her through everything! I treat her like she's everything because she is everything to me. We often talk about starting a family together and having kids early. Upon meeting her parents, I even made it clear that I will one day marry their daughter.

I make more than enough time to spend with her and she knows how much I love her. She has often told me in the past that I am "PERFECT," that no one has ever treated her this good before, and that she would never break up with me. I know the sex between us is AMAZING, and she knows that I am not using her for sex by any means. I am very attractive and promised to give her everything I have in the future. Yet, I don't understand why she would break up with me because she is "starting to love me less." She says its because of my job and the fact that it is low paying.

Our arguments in the past have often ended in tears and revolved around financial issues (ie. From not having a car of my own to issues surround my job (retail), etc). But we have always made it work out and given each other another chance. I don't understand why she would break up with me if she knows I am responsible and more than willing to take care of her and our children if we ever have any.

When I asked her if there is a chance of getting back together, she said "no," but she has also told me after not too long ago that she still loves me. Sometimes, it feels like she is unable to control her emotions and takes everything out on me.

She is just started dating someone and has decided to go "no contact" on me. It has not even been 2 months since the break up. When I ask to see how she's doing and to tell her to be careful, but it feels like she hates me. She has deleted me from MSN but still has me on Facebook. I have done everything to get her back, and I don't want to continue trying because I will push her away. I have given her space and done everything for her.

And another thing, when we broke up, she has even told me she does not see a future between us. I asked her why and she does even know why she feels this way. Is it really because of my job or something deeper?!? I realize that after August, our relationship started going downhill and she decided to break up shortly after.

I really want her back and to start a brand new relationship with her. I know that no one will ever treat her as good as the way I did and she knows it too. I am not dating anyone even though I have a lot of chances to do so and find someone better. I am suffering from insomnia (loss of sleep), contemplated suicide, and cried many many times just thinking about her.

What should I do and what did I do wrong? Why does she hate me so much at the moment? Does she still love me? Will she ever regret leaving me? And is she in a rebound relationship right now?

I also have another post on another site; http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationshi

Comments and suggestions are greatly appreciated !!!

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To add to this, I am taking the time to improve myself in everything! In terms of my job, I have even left it to pursue better opportunities, even if I am just applying for jobs right now.

I know that this guy she is seeing IS NOT the reason why we broke up and I know that he is from a dating site. So I am 100% that she did not cheat on me. I feel like if she decides to be serious with this guy, it will end very soon, and that the relationship will be a rebound relationship. I'm not so worried about the guy or guys she is seeing right now. The only thing I worry about more than anything is that she will get hurt if she commits too deeply into this guy, and if she will come back to me. I know she still loves me despite every hurtful thing she has said to me.

I find myself crying practically every day… sometimes it becomes so unbearable that I feel like killing myself. I hate myself for losing her, but I love her intensely!

When will she come back to me? and how long do I have to wait?

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Posted by Zelma Jefferson - October 31, 2011 at 7:20 pm

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