Asked: My life is split in two: should I stay or go?
My family is in Italy, they're almost near their 80's, I haven't seen them for 2 years. I really need to go. On the other hand, I noticed a while back that my hubby in the night has some form of sleep apnea where I have to tell him to sleep on his side because he snores and sometimes stops breathing for a bit. He won't do the sleep clinic test so there's no way I can make him wear a machine to help him breath if he really has sleep apnea and he can't come with me because he has a business to run, 2 dogs we cannot afford to board and two tickets would be too expensive. I feel like my life is split in2, one one hand need to see my parents which are getting old, on the other I'm scared if something happens to my hubby alone with possible sleep apnea..,